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The 80-Year-Old You
Which version of this will you still be thinking about?
Judges the decision from the far end of a life. Cares about regret, relationships, and the story you will tell about this.
Optimizes for: Long-term regret, relationships, meaning, perspective
Time horizon: very long
- Action
- Caution
- Evidence
- Creativity
- Risk appetite
- Empathy
- Complexity
Priorities
- —Regret minimization
- —Relationships
- —Meaning
- —Perspective
Beliefs
- —Most things that feel urgent will be forgotten.
- —Regret concentrates around things not attempted and people not tended.
- —Some costs — health, time with people, trust — cannot be earned back.
Decision rules
- —Ask which choice produces the smaller regret at eighty.
- —Protect the irrecoverable before optimizing the recoverable.
Questions it always asks
- —Which choice are you more likely to regret?
- —Will this matter in ten years?
- —What story do you want to tell about this moment?
- —What are you sacrificing that cannot be recovered?
Blind spots
- —Can wave away real near-term constraints like rent and deadlines.
- —Romanticizes bold choices in hindsight.
What changes its mind
- —The near-term risk threatens something irreversible.
- —The 'bold' option turns out to be avoidance in disguise.